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Win The Life Game Like A Chess Game !

  There is a quote saying “ No one can win a game of chess by moving forward only. Sometimes one has to move backward also to get a better move ”. Do you know how to play chess ? Do you love that game ? It's actually one of the trickiest games. Anyway I am not a big fan of chess, just because I don't even properly know how to play that. According to my knowledge the most important thing a chess player needs is patience. Yess….. That is it. Patience and willingness to move backward to get a better move can take you anywhere. Not only will we be able to win a chess game, but we  can also win the game of our life. Patience is one of the most important things we should have. It helps us to make appropriate decisions. It helps us to maintain a good relationship with friends and relatives. Patience  takes us to higher heights only.   The problem faced by many  is lack of patience. It is not the problem faced by one. Everybody is going through that problem. It makes us...

Travel The Beautiful Book !

  "The world is a book and those who do not travel read only a page". These are the words by Saint Augustine. We always say that books are our best friends, so like this we can also say travel is our best friend. Do you like traveling? Have you experienced the magical power of traveling ? To me personally traveling is my favourite thing. Although I haven't travelled much. It would be a great miss for us if we didn't explore such a beautiful world. As I am from Kerala "God's own country" I like to talk about Kerala. It's a state in India. A state with great culture. Famous for its greenery and backwaters. Traveling is not only exploring its culture, scenery and food it's much more than that.        Nowadays many countries are spending millions of money on their tourism.  They renovate their beautiful and historical places  for tourism.       Many types of people are around us. Some consider travel as a hobby,...

Life In College !

  “ College life is like a ship, missing it is just the tip of the iceberg when you roll back the memories you had then you start sinking in the tears of Love, Care, and most of all FRIENDSHIP “. A quote by Gabriel Philip.   Wow, this quote made me rollback the memories of my college. Do you miss your college ? Have you been the naughtiest child in college who used to get punishment from the teachers or authorities ? Have you visited the principal's room often ? Anyway I am sure that all these questions will surely bring some sort of event to our minds. Is that all a secret?  :)  When we talk about the word “ College life “ it  brings different experiences to all. For some it is enjoying to the fullest.. partying, playing, romance, skipping classes, etc. For others it is studying, exams, their career, and all. But I guess one thing is common. That is missing their beautiful college.   College is a place where we learn many things other than academics. We le...

Sacrifice Life !

  “ Great achievement is usually born of great sacrifice, and is never the result of selfishness “. A quote by Napoleon Hill. Are your achievements born from sacrifice or selfishness? I guess it will surely be from sacrifice. Achievements born from selfishness will not have any value or it will not be permanent.  Some people are ready to sacrifice their life for the well being of others. They sacrifice their money, health, love, and everything for the well being of others. Do you know where this sacrifice is commonly found ? It is seen around you. It is seen in your family itself.  There are some people who consider this world as their family. The soldiers who protect our country consider our country as their family and sacrifice their lives to protect us. But then are we remembering them? Are we considering them as our family ? If not, we are really selfish.     Not only soldiers but there are many in our surroundings who sacrificed their life for others. ...

Attitude Changes Our Life.

  “ Our attitude towards life determines life’s attitude towards us “. A quote by John Mitchell.  What is your attitude towards your life ? Are you able to take a positive attitude in all situations ? Anyway, am I able to have a positive attitude to all things ? And the answer is No..! It's just because we all are humans. We have our own feelings. We become sad when we find anything negative. But we can actually train our mind. We can take everything that we see and hear around us in a positive manner.  No one's life is perfect. Everyone will have their own problems in life. But we can bring every problem into happiness by our attitude.  There is a quote saying “People will throw stones at you. Don't throw them back. Collect them all and build an empire “. Whatever happens in life we should try to find the perfect from it. We might be knowing of the person named Raj Kumar. He was working in an IT sector earlier. Now he is the founder and CEO of Deshwal Waste Manageme...

Poverty Should End !

  There is a Greek proverb saying “ When poverty comes in through the door, love goes out through the window”. Have you experienced real poverty in your life ?  I guess no. I haven't even experienced it. And ofcourse it's not a good thing to experience. There are many people in our surrounding who are struggling to get at least one meal a day. Some people skip their meals to feed their children. It has become quite common around us. Is this happening because our Earth is not having enough food for all of us ? Or are we taking more than we are allotted ? Have we become greedy ? Each one of us really needs to think about this matter. Why does this happen ?  Many people had to eat the leftovers. They don't even have a house and good clothes to change. They need to sleep on the footpaths. They hardly struggle to meet the two ends together.  Poverty is actually a man-made disaster. Have you heard about poverty in the early days of life? People used to exchange food and ot...

What Others Think of Me !

  There is a quote saying “ You’ll never be happy if you constantly worry what others think about you “. Do you have this problem in your life ? Any way I had.  I used to think what others would think if I do this, or dress like this, and so on.  But would they really think so? Or do they even have the time to think of us ? Everybody is busy with their own life. And what is the problem if they think so? Anyway, others' thinking is not going to decide our life. Do you know how I try to come out of this thinking? It's a secret but I will share it with you :) One day someone told me this. “ if you worry that a person is thinking badly about your dress or something. On the other hand that person will be actually worrying the same. Maybe he will be worrying that we are thinking something bad of him”. So whenever I think about what others will be thinking of me this comes to my mind. So why should I worry? Anyway he is also thinking like me.  Actually why would we even wor...

Good Friends In Life

 " Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave and impossible to forget". These are the quotes by G. Randolf. Do you have good friends in your life?  We will be meeting lots of people in our daily life. Maybe we become friends with them after talking for a while. But do we remember them after a year ? Most probably we will not be remembering them. Good friends will be building up an attachment not only outside but also in our inner mind. Good friends are something special. They will know our mind. We are building a  bond to share anything with them. They know about our stupidities, likenesses , dis likenesses and everything. When they tease us saying something, it doesn't even hurt us. We will happily accept those teasings.  Good friendships can be formed between anyone. It can be with our parents, cousins, siblings, or anyone. Do you have the courage to share your inner likenesses with them? Then of course you have a good friendship with them. But that is hard to...

Fear of Failure

  Don’t be afraid to fail. It's not the end of the world, and in many ways, it's the first step toward learning something and getting better at it. These are quotes by Jon Hamm, an American actor. Have you ever failed in any exams or events ? Have I failed ? Of course…. Yess! I have failed many exams. And did I stop writing exams after the failure? Of course…. Noooo! We all fell down many times when we started walking. We learned from it. Now we can walk, jump, run and do anything.  That is it. We learn from our failures and mistakes. P C Mustafa was a child from Kerala. He failed his 6th grade and ended up working on a farm. From there he continued his education. He took a degree from NIT, Calicut and his masters from IIT, Bangalore. Now he runs a brand that sells packed food that is worth 62 crores. Failing in his 6th grade did not prevent him from succeeding in his life.  There is a quote by A P J Abdul Kalam saying “ The best brains of the nation may be found on the l...

Success After Every Pain

  The sun after the rain is much more beautiful than the sun before rain. These are the words by Bill Watterson , an American author. Have you ever noticed this ?  After a cry every pain will become lesser. We learn new things from every pain we suffer. As we suffer more and more  we learn more and more. At a point we will start fighting with all the strength and learnings we acquired from our pain. That is the point where we become happier. That happiness will be more beautiful than what we enjoyed in the beginning. Indian newspapers reported the news of a girl named Annie Siva a few months back. She was abandoned with her baby at the age of 18. She fought against all odds and became a Sub Inspector of police. This is only just one example. There are many people in our surroundings who fight against their problems with their maximum effort. And the happiness after this will be the best happiness in their life. There is a quote saying “ Every successful person has a painf...

Do Something to Succeed

  “However difficult life may seem, there is always something you can do and succeed at. These are the famous words by Stephen Hawking . I think he is the most  appropriate person to quote this. With his disability he became the greatest physicist.   God has given us the perfect life without any disability. Even so, are we able to perfectly succeed in our life? We may be having some problems in our life. But are our problems or difficulties as complicated as Stephen Hawking? No right . Then why don’t we succeed to the maximum. Is it because we are not doing things properly? We need to really think about this.   Sometimes we may be passing through the most difficult situation of our life. But we should keep in mind that there is something I can do even in this situation to succeed in my life. By thinking so we are also giving a strength to our mind- that we can succeed.    We know about Hellen Keller. She was born deaf and blind. But with these disabilities...