Good Friends In Life

 "Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave and impossible to forget". These are the quotes by G. Randolf. Do you have good friends in your life? 


We will be meeting lots of people in our daily life. Maybe we become friends with them after talking for a while. But do we remember them after a year ? Most probably we will not be remembering them. Good friends will be building up an attachment not only outside but also in our inner mind.


Good friends are something special. They will know our mind. We are building a  bond to share anything with them. They know about our stupidities, likenesses , dis likenesses and everything. When they tease us saying something, it doesn't even hurt us. We will happily accept those teasings. 


Good friendships can be formed between anyone. It can be with our parents, cousins, siblings, or anyone. Do you have the courage to share your inner likenesses with them? Then of course you have a good friendship with them. But that is hard to do and ofcourse 100 percent possible. 


"Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world together" . A quote by Woodrow Wilson. We will be having our friends when we are in a problem. They will be there to support and  encourage us. They try to correct our mistakes.

Friendship has some special powers. Friendship can guide us to good habits as well as bad habits. If we want to know about the character of a person, check out his friend's character. We can easily know from it.


A few months ago there was a news report in Indian newspapers about a boy named Alif Mohammed. He was born without legs. But to Alif this disability did not obstruct from attending the college. He was carried by his friends to the college. He has his friends to support him.    


Some friendship lasts forever even if we depart from this world. Try to be a good friend that has a special place in others' hearts. 


We will be having some  friends that will be hiding last in our phone contacts. We haven't even called them for years. Just make a call with your special friend . And I promise you that it will be the best moment you have for this day. Go ahead and make out the call. All the best  :) 

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