Do you know yourself !

 “ Once you replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you’ll start having positive results “. A quote by Willie Nelson. 


Heyy all. 

Hope you all are doing good.

I came up with something different today.

 So let’s get into it right.


How is the quote I had mentioned above. Have you replaced your negative thoughts with positive ones? If not, you are walking towards failure. The first and  simplest way to success is self motivation. Motivate yourself with positive thoughts.


You might be thinking what these negative thoughts are. They are simple things that you all think about every day. Being scared of something. Telling yourself that I am not able to do that. Take all these thoughts from your mind and put them in a big waste basket.


Always keep yourself motivated with positive thoughts. Tell yourself  “yes, I can do it”. Know yourself. You are the only one knowing all your strengths and weaknesses. Accept all. Take time and rewind all things that have happened in your life. It will tell you what you are good and bad at. In the end what matters is how you see yourself. The cat sees itself as a lion in front of the mirror. Be like that. Whatever you are, see yourself like whatever you want in the mirror. That itself brings you the confidence to win your life. Sell yourself wherever you get a chance. Keep you as a brand. Everybody loves branded things only. Let the crowd come and follow you. 


Have you heard of SWOT analysis? Its Strengths, Weakness, Opportunities and Threats. You will be thinking why I am telling it here. Usually it is used in big companies and all. But it has some role here. SWOT analysis is the best method to know yourself. Identify yourself. 


Another method is Johari Window. Have you seen it? It is a model that helps you to understand your relationship with you and others. It's really important that we need to go through this window and identify ourselves.





In our society we can mainly see two different categories of people. One that thinks “ I wish I had ” and the other that thinks “ I am glad I had “. The first category always needs more; they will never be satisfied. They always have negative thinking. Never get into that category. 


Always be happy. Be satisfied with what you have. Keep motivated. Never enter negative thoughts into your mind. Have a blessed, satisfied, motivated and happy  day. All the best and keep moving. Don’t forget to keep a beautiful smile on your beautiful face.  :)

     

 

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